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Happy Thanksgiving


Once again, we’re on the road to Connecticut to my wife’s family thanksgiving celebration. We’ve missed it only once since 1990. Sometimes I wish we could have our own dinner and not travel, but mostly I’m glad we still have family to see. This one is going to be a bit different since my mother-in-law just broke her wrist last night and will be having surgery Friday. Alas, no getting up early to shop this year. Please pray that she would be comforted and strengthened for the surgery. She’s 75 (I think) and prone to much anxiety.

Despite her situation, I am still looking forward to cranberry sauce (not the jelly kind either) and pumpkin pie. Mmmm.

Thank you Lord for another year of overflowing blessings.

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How many exhaust pipes does your car have?


Recently, I was away for the day and driving home around dinner time. The traffic was bad and I was trying not to allow a foul mood to overtake me. I called home to tell Kim when I was going to arrive. I could tell she was tired so I asked to talk to my 6 year old, Jared. Jared loves cars. he obsesses over them actually, especially their exhaust systems. He has learned that expensive cars have more than one exhaust pipe (unlike ours); “gas impressers” he used to call them for some reason. He can identify the make/model of cars from quite a distance, “That’s a VW Jetta, it has 2 tail pipes…that’s a Mercedes Benz, it has only one exhaust in the center…” I can tell you that some times I find it very annoying but this time I didn’t. I narrated the cars that were passing me and the number of tail pipes each one had. From our kitchen he then told me a little something about each car.

A silly pointless conversation? No, a bonding time and protection from becoming angry about the wasted time in traffic. I’m thankful for hands-free phones and my son’s willingness to share his love for cars with me.

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Consider these images from Paul Tripp


“Sin is the ultimate shrinkwrap.”

It conforms (when warmed by life’s stresses) to the shape of our lives.

“The kingdom of the self is a costume kingdom.”

Paul Tripp at the CCEF Living Faith conference.

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Living Faith Conference


I’ll be at CCEF’s Living Faith Conference this weekend at the Valley Forge Convention Center. The conference is covering the topic of broken relationships. I’m glad to see they have Carl Ellis speaking there. He is fun to listen to and has the scars to show he knows what he is talking about when it comes to difficult life circumstances. Even better, he likes to laugh at his own jokes. If you haven’t seen his book, Free at Last? The Gospel in the African American Experience, you ought to take a look, though I will admit its better to here him in living color than to read the book. He just adds so much more than the page will allow.

The usual CCEF suspects will be there: Paul Tripp, David Powlison, Ed Welch and the hardworking 3rd generation of teachers (Clark, Emlet, Lane, B. Smith, W. Smith, and more). The conference workshop titles suggest it won’t just be about how to make your relationships all better, but how to live within a broken relationship. John Freeman from HarvestUSA will be talking to parents of gay children. A number of other folks will be speaking as well. I’ll give you some highlights next week.

If you’ve nothing to do and you want an interesting evening tonight, Paul Tripp and the Gettys are leading something called, The artwork of grace: An evening of imagination using words and music to give you a glimpse of the unseen. Its at 7:30 and only $10. for non-registrants. 

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I will sing of my redeemer


Went to sleep with a heavy heart as one of our church elders passed away this week…but awoke with this song in my head. No obvious reason why since I haven’t heard it sung in awhile.

I will sing of my redeemer and his wonderous love to me;
On the cruel cross he suffered from the curse to set me free.

I will tell the wonderous story, how my lost estate to save;
In his boundless love and mercy, He the ransom freely gave.

I will paise my dear redeemer, his triumphant power I’ll tell;
How the victory he giveth over sin and death and hell.

I will sing of my redeemer, and his heav’nly love to me;
He from death to life hath bro’t me, son of God, with him to be.

Sing, O sing of my redeemer, with his blood, he purchased me;
On the cross he sealed my pardon, paid the debt and set me free.

Words by Philip Bliss, 1876.

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Drinking color?


While the Fall leaves here are nothing compared to my beloved VT/NH/ME, we in South-eastern PA are enjoying the last bits of color these days. (To me, the difference between fall leaves in New England and fall leaves here is like the difference between a homegrown tomato and one you buy in the grocery store in February, or the difference between an orange in FL and one we get months later up here.) The tree in our neighbor’s yard was bright yellow yesertday and now those leaves are on the ground. We seem to have a number of yellow/orange trees in Abington. I love to stand in front of one and drink in the color. There’s something peaceful about it. It makes my eyes happy.

It had just stopped raining yesterday when I drove to work. The dark clouds, the wet tree trunks, green grass, and the red, yellow, and orange leaves reflecting light reminded me of a drive up the Taconic parkway some years ago. Even though it was pouring, the leaves made it seem like the sun was out. It is nature’s antidepressant, but even better–no side effects. Too bad it doesn’t last…

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How spam fulfills the curse of Genesis 3


The curse delivered in Genesis 3 is that childbearing will be painful, husbands will dominate their wives, and that the land will produce briars, impeding our ability to work productively. Spam is my briarpatch. Despite filters, I still get daily spam in by inbox. Just today someone sent me a wonderful piece of literature (several lines from To Kill a Mockingbird) in order to hide the spam of getting some cheap viagra. Also, a Liberian prince wants to give me 15 million of their secret cache of money if only I give them my bank numbers. This blog now gets spam. Thankfully, WordPress has a filter that catches most of it and only occasionally blocks a real person. A few weeks ago, I got 20 in one day. Apparently, someone thinks my penis is undersized. But, this morning I noticed that one spam offering to increase my “girth” got posted so everyone has to be exposed to such crud. Thankfully, I have the capacity to delete.

While the Lord says, vengence is mine, I’d love to have the capacity to hit the reply button and send a small electronic nuclear device that blows up that louse’s server.

Someone got some good gloves? looks like I have to contend with some briars here from now on.  

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The Psychology of Self-centered Christianity


Yesterday our church had a send off service for a church plant. Our long-time pastor and several elders are leaving to plant a church a few miles away. The pastor said something yesterday that reminded me of a thought I had some weeks ago. He quoted Tim Keller (pastor of a church in Manhattan) saying that we (American?) Christians have done a good job internalizing the positive benefits of salvation by grace alone but have not done so well in going out to find the lost. The heart of the Gospel is a going out (like Paul and Barnabas) to the lost. It is not primarily about holding on to good feelings. The church should not be a country club where we come to get away. Rather, it should be “boot camp” to prepare us to go out.

I think this shows up in the kinds of songs we sing for worship. A couple weeks ago I started noticing how many of the songs we sing are focused almost completely on thanking God for what he has done in my life, for his grace, forgiveness, love, etc. Singing about these things is great. But do we also sing songs that move us out? I suppose “Onward Christian Soldiers” might not be our first choice, but do we have any contemporary songs that would parallel that hymn’s focus? How about something similar in sentiment to the African American national anthem (Lift Every Voice and Sing)?

Maybe some of you readers could remind me of contemporary songs that are not so self focused…

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Forgiveness is good for you?


I realize the topic of forgiveness is a hot one these days. Lots of books on the topic. Reasons to forgive range from “its good for you” (or not doing so is bad for your health), its something to give only if the offender asks for it, and its required by God. I suggested in a previous post that it is possible to do so too quickly. Maybe quick or slow isn’t the best choice of words. Superficial vs. deep might be better. Also, we talk about whether forgiveness is a one time act or a daily choice. Is it a feeling or a decision? It seems to me that it is a daily act that does not deny emotions of hurt and pain or recognition that destruction of relationship has taken place. Does forgiveness imply that the victim must act as if the offender never harmed them. If you steal from me, do I allow you to manage my valuables after I forgive you?

Forgiveness is both simple and complex. It is both quick and slow. It is both submission to God and grace to the offender. It does not deny or suppress emotion, it does not pretend nothing happened, it may not change the consequences. It is not the same as reconciliation. It does represent something of God’s immense character and when we see it in action, we see God.

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The plight of Genarlow Wilson: Should we really loose laws protecting minors from sex?


Heard a story this am on Tom Joyner’s morning radio program. Mark Cuban (owner of the Dallas Mavericks) was bringing attention to the story of Wilson’s 10 year prison sentence for consensual oral sex with a 15 year old. Wilson was then 17 (for a website, see: http://www.wilsonappeal.com/index.php). A videotape helped seal the deal. He is now (unless the governor or the GA State Supreme Court intervenes) forever a sex offender. In GA, children under 16 are considered unable to give consent, even to another minor. So, teens having sex is/was criminal. Unfortunately, their laws aren’t very specific, so Wilson gets treated the same as a 50 year old doing the same act on a minor.

That’s not good. A one size fits all legal code turns salvagable people into sex offenders. So it seems that folks are petitioning to change laws in several states (GA already has for future crimes). What gets me is that while the law/punishment is not right, neither is saying, kids will be kids. I’m concerned that we aren’t taking stock of how WE helped develop a society that says freedom of speech (putting sex and sexual situations on TV, allowing unfettered access to sex on the web to whomever has the ability to click a mouse) is more important than protecting children. Seems if something is really bad for an individual and has dire consequences for minor who we want to protect, its not wrong to educate our boys and girls that minor sex is not only unhealthy (we have ample evidence of the mental health consequences for girls having early sex) but unlawful. If we loose the laws, then we will also make it easier for predatory teens to get away with their actions as well.

A heartbreaking story for every angle…

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