The world has always been falling apart. Well, at least since Genesis 3. But there are times when we are far more aware of just how busted up we are in this world. This is one of those times. Those of us who work in the social services get a front-row seat at seeing individual, family, community, and society level brokenness.
Frankly, this vantage point tempts me to become cynical, skeptical, and in despair. Listen in on some of the thoughts we Christian counselors might have: people don’t change; leaders serve themselves; God doesn’t care… Out of this experiences, counselors may find themselves becoming complacent, settling for palliative care only (vs. recovery), or worse, using clients to sate their own appetites.
So, where do you find hope in an otherwise hopeless world?
Cynicism and skepticism illustrate conclusions we have made about our world. They illustrate that we have stopped looking for other data. Consider instead these three activities as a reminder and cultivator of the hope available to us:
- Waiting and lamenting. I’ve written on this quite a bit over the years. This post was my most recent, but this one and this one may be of use as well. You might wonder whether lamenting leads to more cynicism. But notice that the goal is to actively wait on God for an answer. When we lament in front of God we talk to him about the state of our soul or the state of the world. Waiting requires that we prepare to listen to God’s heart on these same things.
- Waiting and looking. This is the season of Advent, of remembering the birth of Jesus, the messiah. †Zechariah, the father of John the Baptist had stopped looking for God to show up. Who can blame him, God hadn’t seemed to show up for a mere 400 years or so. It took being struck silent by an angelic messenger to wake him from his disbelief. Where are you no longer looking for God’s hand in your life? In the world? Look to your present. Ask your friends to tell you where they notice God’s activity. Look to your future, imagine yourself as a child waiting eagerly for Christmas morning. Be like that child and keep talking to God, “Is it Christmas yet?” Look even to the past. See what God has done in your life in the past and let that remind you that he is at work in your present and future. Read Hebrews 11 as a reminder of God’s faithfulness to his people.
- Waiting and loving. While we wait, we are not passive! We move and act in love, even when it seems the good we do will not change the outcome. That loving may be acts of palliative care, or it may be an act of planting a dormant seed that one day springs to life and full bloom. This act of loving others grows out of Jeremiah’s lament (Lam 3:21f): because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed. Therefore we recognize that our minuscule capacity to love, to care, even to call others to repentance are all signposts of God’s ongoing love for his people.
Is it crazy to hope in this world? Absolutely. But the signs of birth are around you if you look. Notice in Luke 1 how Zechariah sings of present-tense salvation and redemption, even though Jesus is merely in utero. How much more ought we to be able to hope as we live in the age of the Resurrection.†
†I got these ideas from a sermon preached by Marc Davis on 11/27/16.
4 responses to “Finding hope in a hopeless world”
These are tough times we’re living in… thanks for these tips and reminders..
I needed this today.
Good evening Phil, thank you for your blog. and the reminder to read Hebrews chapter 11. I do that often………….Your Dad is a real blessing to us and we pray that as you and John and families come, that you will be that special blessing to him this first Christmas without your Mom………….With our love, care and prayers, Clark and Georgie
On Tue, Nov 29, 2016 at 5:30 AM, Musings of a Christian Psychologist wrote:
> Phil posted: “The world has always been falling apart. Well, at least > since Genesis 3. But there are times when we are far more aware of just how > busted up we are in this world. This is one of those times. Those of us who > work in the social services get a front-row sea” >
Thank you! Looking forward to Christmas worship with you.