Is it a blessing or a trial?


I read last night to the kids from Exodus before they went off to bed. Chapter 13:17-18a says this: When Pharaoh let the people go, God did not lead them on the road through the Philistine country, though it was shorter. For God said, “If they face war, they might change their minds and return to Egypt.” So God led the people around by the desert road toward the Red Sea.

Here’s some things I began to think about:
1. How easy it is for us to assume we know better than God what we need. I would bet the Israelites weren’t told the reason for going the long way to Caanan. What did they think? Wouldn’t shorter be better? It would be less taxing on the children and seniors. It would bring us sooner in the Promised Land.  If you look at a map, the probable path of the Israelites takes them south and east before going north. Again, it would be easy to assume that a mistake has happened. There were trade routes due East that would have been shorter and not through the land of the Philistines.
2. God had plans to show them (and the rest of the near world) his glory, his power. We, on the other hand, just want to avoid all suffering and danger. If it wasn’t enough to see God deliver them out of slavery, they were going to see his power to save them a second time when cornered by Pharaoh. Why put them through this stressful situation? The end of chapter 14 says this: And when the Israelites saw the great power the Lord displayed against the Egyptians, the people feard the Lord and put their trust in him and in Moses his servant.
3. Despite obvious evidence of the Lord’s guidance, we are prone to give way to fear. Notice that though they had the cloud and the pillar of fire with them, they immediately despaired when they saw the army coming after them. And of course, when we despair, we are prone to attack those in authority over us. And we disbelieve that God is good.

So, what you are going through today may indeed be a trial but also a blessing. What we often cannot see is how God’s hand is in it or how it will be a blessing. There are times God brings us through a difficult thing to (a) protect us from something even more dangerous, (b) to increase our faith in him, (c) and/or to show us his glory. We do not have access to hindsight as we do with the story of Israel. However, we do have access to his promise that he will be with us and that he is shaping us into his people. We do not have to be pious and call the evil being done to us something good. No, it is not. And yet, God is good. He uses these things for his glory and our enrichment.

Now here’s my challenge. I have to have faith that my several thousand dollar car repair is a blessing in that it provides an opportunity to hang more tightly to God in regard to my finances. Rather than trusting myself, I must trust him. Instead of saying I will do thus and so, I must be more careful to say (and mean!) if the Lord wills…

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Summer reading, II


Just got Children of Hurin from the library and have 6 days to read it. Not that it will take me that long. So far, it doesn’t move me like LOTR or the Hobbit, but didn’t really expect it to either. Some nice color drawings throughout.

My wife is waiting anxiously for the last Potter book. Haven’t read a one of them and don’t plan to start. Just never got into it.

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What’s on your summer reading list?


Now that my semester is over I’m looking to knock off some books off my fun reading list (which always grows faster than I can read). Do you have a list and what are the books you would like to read (or, are likely to read) before the summer is over? Trying to decide what to take on vacation in August. Usually I know right away. But right now, I’m conflicted. What if my first choice (#5) doesn’t come in?

Here’s my fun list:

1. Christian Counseling: An introduction(Maloney and Augsburger). Done
2. The Perfect Storm(Junger). Old, I know but fascinating. Done.
3. Inside Hamas: The untold story of the militant islamic movement(Chehab). BTW, very intersting as it shows how Israel encouraged the formation of Hamas in the mid 80s (when I was there as a student) thinking that Hamas would keep the PLO in check. Just goes to show that when you introduce snakes to deal with the rabbits, the snakes have ways of raising havoc you never imagined.
4. Infidel (Ali). Done
5. New England White (Carter). On waitlist at the library
6. The children of Hurin (Tolkien). Same as #5
7. Johnny Tremain (reading to the kids). In progress.
8. The family sabbatical handbook (Bernick). In progress. This is my fantasy–live abroad for a year. It brings back the several trips I made as a young adult.

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Waiting


I hate waiting. Does anyone like it? When you are waiting for 15 minutes to pass so you can do something else, doesn’t it seem like a long time (unless you do a good job distracting yourself)?

Right now, I’m waiting for a phone call from a transmission shop. We think our transmission went over the weekend. Had to leave the car 1.5 hours from home and rent another to get home. The guy said he’d call yesterday after lunch. He didn’t. I finally called at 4:30 pm. He would get to it before “they guys left for the day” and give me a call then. He didn’t. So, now its the next mid morning and I’m still waiting and growing impatient as  the minutes tick by. I want to know the damage and I want to know it NOW!

How long did Abraham have to wait for his promise to be fulfilled that he would have a son with Sarai? How long did Joseph have to wait for his dreams to be fulfilled? David, for his annointing as king to become a reality? Israel, for the promised messiah?

I’m sure there is something to be learned in waiting. Frankly, I’m not always sure I want to learn it. But for the moment, I’m going to try. I’m going to learn that this is not heaven, that I am not God, that he has given me many other blessings that I have failed to thank him for, that perseverence is sanctifying me, as opportunity to pray for the less fortunate…

Lord help me accept your time table.

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Coffeemate update


On May 2, I wrote about the coffeemate stains my son made in the driveway that had then lasted for 10 days. Here’s the story should you want that info: https://wisecounsel.wordpress.com/2007/05/02/is-that-coffeemate-or-paint-in-your-coffee/

Well, I noticed that I can still see the droplets though they are fading away. We are closing in on 3 months of sun, rain, and hose blasting. Maybe it would make a good paint for my dormers.

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First tomato: the taste of summer, II


Had first tomato from my garden yesterday. Ah, the taste of summer (along with strawberries and later peaches). If I had a digital camera, I would share the photo because it was one of those beefsteak tomatoes that looked so delicious (and it was). Turned it over and found it had a significant scar across the bottom at the blossom end.

Much like us. We look good on the outside but have our underbelly scars that aren’t seen until picked (or married). The good news is that it was mighty tasty. Just had to cut around the base a bit. Um, I think I’ll drop the analogy now. Not sure that we want to be doing cutting on each other (smile).

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The centrality of Christ in Counseling


Chapter nine of Maloney’s and Augsburger’s Christian Counseling: An introduction ends their section on foundations. The chapter is entitled: Christ in Christian Counseling. They state their primary concern in this chapter this way.

We are convinced that Christ is essential for Christian counseling….[so] how does this assertion of the centrality of Christ specifically relate to counseling that goes by his name? (92-3) Continue reading

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The blessing you didn’t ask for


Sunday’s sermon was on Matthew’s account of the healing of the paralyzed man. The friends go to the trouble to get the man in front of Jesus (the other Gospels point out that they opened the roof to get him in because the crowds were too great). And what does Jesus do? He forgives the man’s sins. I could imagine the man thinking or even saying, “Uh, thanks Jesus, but that wasn’t what I was looking for. I’d rather walk if that is okay with you.”

The reality is we have in mind the way we want to be blessed. Sometimes God’s blessing doesn’t fit our mold. This passage is a good reminder that Jesus’ primary healing is the healing hearts hardened by sin. The physical healing is “so that you may know” who God is.

Ever had a blessing you didn’t ask for, but got? Here are two of mine. I certainly didn’t ask for them when we were going through infertility but man did I ever get the better blessing.

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Passion Fest 2007 event in Pottstown tomorrow


For those of you in the area, you might consider going to Passion Fest 2007 tomorrow. It is held on the grounds of the Pottstown High School–from noon til 10 pm. Andy Palau will provide some evangelistic speaking, several well known bands will play and of course there will be the skaters, bikers, and the like putting on an x games show. This is a family event and not just for the kids. This site will tell you a bit about it and give you directions and the bands that are playing: http://www.passionfest.org/2007/site_flash/index.html.

I’ll be supervising a group of Biblical students who will provide counseling and prayer opportunities for those interested in talking to someone. 

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Christian Counselor as Ethicist


In chapter 8 of Christian Counseling: An Introduction, Maloney and Augsbuger take on the issues of ethics. But they are not focusing on professional ethics codes of conduct. Morality and ethics play a part in every counseling session. They remind the reader that “value-free” therapy is not possible
and authenticity without pursuit of ideals is unwise. They see the focus on “effectiveness” as
shortsighted when it ignores values and ends.

The Christian counselor however should not attempt to obligate the counselee to particular set of morals. Instead of being prescriptive (focusing on the “oughts” or boundaries of acceptable behavior), the counselor ought to be illuminative (pointing out the reality of desires, choices, etc.). To make their point about the value of illumination, they re-tell the story of Carl Rogers’ response to a woman’s request to help her stop feeling guilty for wanting to have sex outside of marriage. The woman admits her conscience accuses her. Rogers says, “You want to go against your conscience and still feel good about it? That sounds like a pretty tall order to me.”  

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