Category Archives: sin

Levels of Depravity and the American consciousness of evil


I listened to and interview with NY Times columnist Thomas Friedman (author of best-selling, The World is Flat) on the way to work this morning. He was discussing the dire problems in Iraq. During the interview he was grieving the losses that 9/11 brought to the sense of safety we Americans used to have. He talked about no longer being able to travel the world as an American without any worries as to safety. He mentioned how in DC one has to produce an ID to go into public buildings now. To underline these day/night changes in the last few years, he compared his experiences covering 5 years of the Lebanese civil war to what is happening in Iraq and Afghanistan. From his perspective, even in the atrocities of the Lebanese civil war, there were still lines of civility not crossed by the combatants. But now, there is no sense of “sanctuary”. Everyone is a target. A hospital to treat Muslims was blown up on the day it was being opened, a mosque was blown up during a funeral, school girls blown up during a test.

His comments made me pause. Is the world reaching some deeper level of depravity not seen before? Continue reading

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See this thought on sexual struggles


Not sure how to do the trackback thingy, but Cavman (see my blogroll) has a great post/point in his reflection on the Ted Haggard situation. He points out that the problem is that we assume that Haggard is in the minority of sexual strugglers. In fact, we all are sexual strugglers in one shape or another but we pretend that we are not. Go to his site and read what he has to say. Here’s the link: 

http://cavman.wordpress.com/2007/03/01/adults-and-sexual-temptation/

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Ponder the effects of hidden sin


Consider Zophar’s description of how a secret sin turns sour in the stomach. While Zophar’s speech making and judgement against Job was completely out of place and later rebuked by God [note: a warning to us counselors that we can be completely right about something and yet deliver the wrong message to the wrong person. Scary!], his description still helps us see how giving in to “sweet nothings” entraps and kills us. 

Though evil is sweet in his mouth and he hides it under his tongue, though he cannot bear to let it go and keeps it in his mouth, yet his food will turn sour in his stomach; it will become the venom of serpents within him. He will spit out the riches he swallowed; God will make his stomach vomit them up. He will suck the poison of serpents; the fangs of an adder will kill him. He will not enjoy the streams, the rivers flowing with honey and cream. What he toiled for he must give back uneaten; he will not enjoy the profit from his trading. For he has oppressed the poor and left them destitute; he has seized houses he did not build. Surely he will have no respite from his craving; he cannot save himself by his treasure. Job 20:12-20

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Volf: Speaking truth, practicing grace


In the previous chapter of The End of Memory Volf determined that memory of wrongs suffered was an ambiguous event that could either heal or be used to harm self and other. In this chapter (3) he takes on the issue of determining how one benefits from memories of evil without also drinking the oft accompanying poison of hate or fear. On p. 42-3 he sets up his belief and concern:

Learning to remember well is one key to redeeming the past; and the redemption of the past is itself nestled in the broader story of God’s restoring of our broken world to wholeness–a restoration that includes the past, present, and future….Will I feel secure in the midst of abiding insecurities in the world, or will I always feel exposed to threats? (He offers many more similar questions regarding healing, justice, and meaning on p. 43).

To make movements toward healing, one must remember AND speak truthfully wrongs suffered by the hand of another. How do we do this? Volf explores 3 areas: Continue reading

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What makes for a great apology?


Last Sunday my small group used the story of Zaccheus to launch a discussion about what makes for a great apology. We know it when we see one and we definitely know when someone’s “I’m sorry” falls far short. But what are the things that make an apology meaningful? Here are some phrases I suggested we might hear in a great apology (order intended). Continue reading

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True Apologies prove the existence of God


I’m a semi-regular listener to Harry Shearer’s Le Show on NPR (also one of my favorite voices on the Simpsons). Each week he reports various “apologies” given by news-makers in a segment aptly titled: “apologies of the week.” Ironically, and why it can be quite funny, the apologies are almost never that. They are defenses, excuses, and convoluted explanations. What are some of the typical non-apologies you might hear? Continue reading

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Do you see a river of life (creation) or only a river of death (sin)?


People of Reformed theological persuasion tend to be quite passionate in describing sin patterns–at least in theory. We feel at home with concepts such as Total Depravity (thank you Calvin. Some day I’ll share my friend Doug’s bible study: “Why total depravity leads to joy”). We know that even our best isn’t very good. Yes, we have been already adopted, but we are not yet glorified, and so we are still sinners in need of God’s daily grace.

However, I’ve noticed that some attracted to Reformed theology and biblical counseling are very much focused on the fall, on the broken world. Continue reading

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Painful words in the church: What are we to do with our stories of pain and mistreatment by other Christians?


Its no revelation that Christians hurt each other in some very serious ways. While I believe that more people have been loved by Christians than hurt, the painful reality is that we can do so much damage. Hence we have books such as Dwight Carlson’s, Why do Christians shoot their wounded. Here’s what often happens. We tell the stories to others. There is something good and something bad about our telling of our stories. But before I discuss the good and the bad, let me tell two quick stories (which I will later critique). Continue reading

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You hurt me! How do you respond to hurtful words?


A couple of recent incidents have me thinking about how we handle our hurts, especially within the church. Yesterday, the news media carried the story of Michael Richard’s (Kramer from Seinfeld) racist verbal attack of two African American hecklers during his standup routine. Here’s the storyin case you missed it. After getting riled up by their comments, he used profane words and then delivered the N word as a final blow. He has since apologized and said he’s not a racist. Let’s assume he isn’t (and we probably shouldn’t since words come from the heart and not thin air). What would make him say these things? What makes us say the most hurtful words that we really don’t mean? The desire to hurt as much as we feel hurt. We go for the jugular. We go for the word that will do the most damage possible. In a fight have you said or had said to you, “I never loved you!” or “I hate you” or “I’m going to kill myself and then you’ll see how it is.” Well, maybe you’ve never said these things but you might have thought them.

It seems that when we are hurt we reserve the right to take the gloves off and wound in return. I’m going to write more tomorrow on when a christian leader makes offensive statements or when we talk about the various opinions of Christian leaders (that we disagree with). It seems in these cases we feel free to tell the stories of related hurts. I actually think this is a good thing. And yet we may use these stories to villify and slander in order to hurt back. In preparation for tomorrow’s post you might like to read these two posts and comments, (here) and (here), on Scot McKnight’s blog, www.jesuscreed.org. The first discusses some of the feelings about Brian McLaren, one of the public faces of the church emerging. The second is about some offensive comments made by Mark Driscoll. There is a third day where Driscoll’s explanation/apology is discussed as well. Read it here. Read the responses to the post and the dialogue among the responders. What themes do you see? What attitudes, what reactions?

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Consider these images from Paul Tripp


“Sin is the ultimate shrinkwrap.”

It conforms (when warmed by life’s stresses) to the shape of our lives.

“The kingdom of the self is a costume kingdom.”

Paul Tripp at the CCEF Living Faith conference.

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