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Living in a state of denial


My roof leaks. I’ve been up on it twice in the past week (scared to death I might add) but can’t find where the water is getting in. I squirt a little caulk here and there just for good measure. Redoing the roof is very expensive so I avoid that option. The bucket in the closet is effective in catching the drips and keeping them out of our first floor ceiling. And then it doesn’t rain for a bit and I blithely go about my day having forgotten that I have a problem…until the next rain and I hold my breath. Maybe it won’t leak this time.

Sounds a little like some counselees. They recognize there is a problem. They make a quick attempt to fix it. The cheap version (talk to a friend, go to one counseling session, etc.) doesn’t solve the problem but the more expensive one (ongoing therapy) seems prohibitive. Anyway, the problem seemed to go away a bit, so the counselee puts the problem on the back burner and then is surprised with the problems return a bit later.

Maybe a tarp would work but I’m too proud for that. So, the bucket remains for now until I can’t live with the dripping anymore.

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New counseling tool discovered!


[Warning: Comic relief]. Every good counselor keeps his or her eye open for the latest/greatest counseling tool that will make them highly effective in their work. This link will take you to a video of such a technique that will allow every counselor to solve the problems that clients bring in under five minutes. Further, the technique is cheap so everyone can afford it. Check out this video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_sd6iVYOpcQ

On a serious note, counselors and lay folk have their own version of this technique that they have been inclined to use in some shape or form. It is interesting that no one wants to receive this technique but everyone has been tempted to use it none the less.

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